I look great on paper- prestigious university grad, lawyer, award winning real estate broker, owner of a real estate company, professional actress and member of the Screen Actors Guild (SAG-AFTRA). I am also a wife and mother of three boys. Cool right? Nope, because I am a fat girl. Even though I go through long periods of time when I am not actually fat, in my heart of hearts, I am just fat. Right now I am clinically obese and wear a size 16. Just 3 years ago, I was a size 6. 50 pounds gained in three years.